You might think that family-owned businesses have a natural advantage. They do – but keeping both the family and the business happy requires effort and careful management. 

The Melting Pot of Emotion 

Family-owned businesses often find themselves entangled in a web of emotions including 

  • Old Wounds: unresolved issues and misunderstandings among family members can resurface, causing tension. 
  • Feeling Undervalued: a family member may feel their contributions are not adequately recognized. 
  • Sibling Rivalry: competition among siblings. 

Balancing Business and Family Issues 

Running a family business involves juggling both professional and personal issues. Key issues that have to be addressed include: 

  • Entitlement: who is entitled to what within the business? 
  • Founder’s Role: wat role will the founder play as the business evolves? 
  • In-Laws: should in-laws be involved in the business? 
  • Shares
  • Who will own shares? 
  • Who gets dividends? 
  • Should shares stay within the bloodline? 

Contingency Planning 

Planning for the ‘what ifs’: 

  • Selling Shares: what if a family shareholder wants to sell shares to an outsider or gift them to a partner? 
  • Divorce: what if a family shareholder divorces, what happens to the shares? 

Clarity and Fairness 

Whether the founder or one of the adult children, clarity and fairness are essential. This requires: 

  • Management Framework
  • Establish clear roles and responsibilities. 
  • Create policies for ownership and succession. 
  • Documentation
  • Think through, document, and file away agreements for future use. 

Final Thoughts 

Family-owned businesses have the potential to be incredibly successful. However, they require careful planning and a framework that supports both the business and family members. These are delicate matters that need to be handled with fairness, transparency, and pragmatism. 

I am always available for an informal discussion, free of charge and without obligation, to help address these critical issues.